1. Narcissist don’t blink when they look at you.Some narcissist have a penetrating, predatory gaze. If a narcissist person of the opposite sex looks at you this way, you may take it as sexual interest (and it could be), but watch carefully: if they do not blink this could mean they are sizing you up as prey.
2. They interrupt you or talk over you constantly.If someone only seems to care about what they are going to say next, and don’t even seem to have heard what you said, suspect a narcissist.
3. Whatever you tell them is really all about them.If you say something to them about yourself, rather than acknowledge you, instead they always relate it to back something that happened to them.
4. Their eyes look flat or dead.This is a “dead” giveaway and those eyes usually belong to someone high on the spectrum–a malignant narcissist or a psychopath. Get away from this person.
5. They sometimes act psychotic.All malignant narcissists are bat shit crazy, and their delusions can rival those of someone with narcissists. In fact, narcissists denied supply over long periods of time or who have suffered a severe loss can in fact become psychotic. narcissists-like neologisms and nonsensical conversation that sounds like word salad isn’t that uncommon in a malignant narcissist living in mortal fear of losing their “mask of sanity.”
6. They have dramatic, unsettling mood swings.Narcissist mood swings (mask switching) can be so sudden and inexplicable you may think you’re dealing with someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID).
7. They are bad sports.They will act like babies if they lose a game. I remember once seeing a grown man in his 40’s get so angry that he lost Monopoly that he picked up the game board and tossed it across the room, while everyone looked on in horror.
8. They have dark interests or like things that make most people uncomfortable.Narcissists, especially high on the spectrum, walk on the dark side and this shows in their obsession with things like the occult, mass murderers, the Holocaust, or weapons.
9. They can’t let nature take its course.If a woman has had an excess of cosmetic surgery including too many facelifts, she is probably a somatic narcissist living in mortal fear of aging.
10. They have an affected way of speaking.Dahhhh-ling, this can manifest as a fake foreign accent, or just a speaking voice that sounds fake and affected, as if they are acting on a stage.